I 27f 5'6 gave lost approx 75lbs over the last two years. The last 30 lbs came off pretty fast and I noticed a drastic change in my physical appearance then. Since then many people, friends, acquaintances, family ect. have all congratulated me or mentioned my weightloss in some positive manner. And I dont like it. It makes me uncomfortable. I love being complimented on my hair, eyes or literally anything else. Just not my body. I think this is paired with the fact that ive noticed a pretty big difference in how people treat me. Strangers are nicer, im no longer invisible. And I dont like it, it actually pisses me off. Im still me, literally NOTHING has changed other than im now in a more socially acceptable package. I get it, im hot now. But I personally always found myself hot. I lost weight for health reasons. Thats not shaming anyone who lost weight for vanity reasons, genuinely I wholeheartedly love that for you. But I dont like when people point it out. Im not exactly sure why it bothers me so much but it does. I saw a friend who I hadn't seen in awhile recently and lovingly said "youre so skinny!!" Multiple times and I just stared at her. Didnt know what to say. I ended up snapping out of it and joking about it but I hated the interaction. I know people mean well but I wish nobody would comment on my body good or bad. Unless im in bed with someone lmao.
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