I am 25F, 60kg, 153cm. Over the past year, I have lost about 13kg. On someone my height, that’s a lot. I still have about 5 to 8 kg to lose to be at my target weight which is between 50 and 55kg. However, the more I lose weight, the more I hate the look of my arms.
I had been overweight most of my life and carried a lot of weight around my arms. This was a huge source of insecurities for me such that I don’t think I have ever stepped out wearing anything sleeveless. Even in summer, I have to wear clothes that cover up my arms because I just cannot bear to see them.
Another problem I had due to this is I developed a lot of stretch marks on my arms which also added to my insecurities.
Over the past year, I have been lifting weights and doing cardio and I have managed to build some good muscle definition around my arms but it’s still hard to see because my hands are all jiggly.
I’ve been considering getting a brachioplastly once and for all so that I can finally feel confident with my arms and wear the nice clothes I want to wear but too scared to. I’m afraid if I don’t this, I will never be able to show my arms to the world. I have tried all manner of confidence hacks to get over it but I can’t.
So should I get plastic surgery? Is it a bad idea to do so knowing I’m young and it’ll leave a scar? Has anyone here gone through this procedure and was it worth it? Please help me brainstorm and tell me if you would or would not do it if you were in my situation.
Everyone I’ve ever brought this up to has not been in support. But these are all people who have always been skinny and have never faced the types of insecurities I’ve faced. Please let me know your thoughts below. Thanks in advance!
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