Please allow me to elaborate. I feel as if this is more of a rant and plea for confirmation. Please let me know if it isn’t allowed.
F 22 5’1 SW: 185 CW: 165 GW: 115
TLDR near the bottom.
My job had a Thanksgiving lunch for all employees the day before Thanksgiving. I thought... awesome. I’m trying to lose weight not gain it... but I went HAM (😉) on filling my plate. I didn’t eat everything and verbally stated I was getting full and probably wouldn’t eat it all. She laughed and basically said “yeah right.” LOL see last post about being “that friend” and me finally losing weight.
Anyway, this sparked a conversation about how she’s lost around 60 pounds herself. She told me everything she did (including specific workouts) which was great to hear because I’m doing/trying much of the same. (CICO, IF).
Now the point: She asked if I had a goal in mind. I explained to her that I had actually had a rough time in the beginning on choosing a goal weight because so many factors play into it. I eventually told her my goal was 115 & that it had taken FOREVER to choose it.
She went on to tell me about how I would be skin and bones, I’d lose my ass, I’d lose by boobs, people would think I’m anorexic etc. She basically ranted about how I needed to weigh 140, no less.
TLDR: My coworker told me my GW of 115 was too small and I should weigh no less than 140. (I’m 5’1 (barely).) & then proceeded to tell me all the negative things everyone would say about me if I were to hit my GW.
Please tell me I’m not crazy for having a GW of 115. Also, (I’ve never had this issue on this sub ❤️) please be supportive of your friends and their goals unless you’re truly concerned. 😫
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