So this has been in the works for the past 2 years. I was 19 when this all started, I’m currently 21
So my problem: -Failing college -School took my financial aid away -Was in 2 car accidents -Depressed -I lost my fear of death/didn’t care if I died -Had HORRIBLE social anxiety -Had no one to talk too -Fat and Ugly -No confidence -Felt like a disappointment to my family -Still didn’t have a job -Forever Alone -Lost 12K in crypto (luckily it was all profit lost, so net was still positive)
Since then it all started it all by loosing weight thanks to you people. I lost 65 pounds, it made me feel more confident and comfortable with my body. Which helped me with my social anxiety.
I was taking a public speaking class while loosing weight and we had to present. This also helped my social anxiety. It started to become easier to talk to strangers but only if they start the conversation and keep it going.
I stopped failing every class, I managed to pass 1-2 every semester.
I was near broke due to no job and no financial aid. Met my cousins girlfriend and we started talking on Xbox. We played a lot and she shows signs that she liked me. She then invited me to hang out with her in person. Went, got my first kiss.
Now I have a girlfriend. My confidence shot up the roof. I no longer felt ugly and learned how to clean myself up. She was there for me in my dark times and brightened me up.
Got a job that required me to talk to strangers every day. Helped me social anxiety by a LOT. Now I have income. My new schedule is M-Th school, F-Sa work, Sa-Su drive to my gf’s house. Although my schedule is full it felt easier to accomplish.
Bonus: My boss has connections to the my city and he told me he can get me an internship based on my major whenever I need it.
Currently retaking classes I failed and I’m getting A’s. For some reason I wanted to check my financial aid status and it said pending approval, I head over to their office. I got fucking approved!! I’m getting a payout for last semester AND this semester.
Another bonus, I’m now in the highest end in terms of credit score and currently debt free.
Holy fucking shit. My life was shattering and I managed to turn it around in only 2 years. I feel like I hit the reset and it worked. I feel unstoppable and couldn’t be anymore happy.
TL;DR Lost weight which led to a major chain of events that ended up fixing my life. I couldn’t handle taking 4 classes at once (failed all 4). Now I I’m taking 4-5 classes at once, have a job and a gf and passing everything with A’s. I flipped my life.
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