I’m M26, currently around 245 pounds at 5’9. Highest weight was 270 at some point last year.
I’m going to be honest, the main reason I want to lose weight is so I can get a girlfriend. I’ve never been in a relationship before and I think my weight plays a big part in that. I am very unattractive as an overweight man, I don’t see someone being attracted to my body the way it is now.
However, I’m terrified that even if I lose all the weight I’ll still be so unattractive once I take my clothes off due to loose skin. I’m just expecting to have a lot of it because I’ve been overweight for so long. I’m worried that as soon as I take my clothes off and a woman sees my loose skin and my crazy amount of stretch marks she’ll be instantly turned off and not want to see me anymore. I think about it all the time.
Unfortunately I just have to deal with it. Staying overweight isn’t an option. Loose skin is the only alternative. It’s just insanely frustrating that the damage is already done because I’ve been overweight my whole life. Anything I do now can’t change my mistakes in the past and get rid of my stretch marks and future loose skin. Oh well. Hopefully I find someone that isn’t bothered by it.
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